People never cease to amaze me
Jun. 15th, 2007 04:39 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
crewgrrlSometimes people amaze me.
Let me explain. (No, will take too long. Let me sum up). But seriously.
June is the universal wedding season. Jewish weddings are not exempt from this, usually because June falls in between sefirah and the three weeks, and people like to cram the simchas in.
But in the Jewish world, wedding season means an additional headache - the ketubah, or marriage contract. Most of the people who read my blog knows what one of these things is, but let's just say that the simple explanation is that it is basically a legal document stipulating a husband's obligations to his wife (at least, an Orthodox or Conservative one). However, it has become almost standard to have a very pretty version of this legal document, usually with calligraphy, most often filled in by the artist who created the design. The two main groups that feel the headache are the ketubah artists themselves, and the people through whom the ketubot are ordered - Judaica Stores!
Due to the fact that I organized most of what we have in the store that has to do with ketubot, and I am one of the fastest typists, I tend to handle most of the orders for personalized ketubot. This means that in the course of one order, I am in contact with the people who ordered the piece, their rabbi or cantor, and the artist.
This leads to some pretty interesting interactions. I had a couple come in two weeks before their wedding needing a ketubah, and I told them, "No problem. You've only got one artist to choose from, but she's pretty prolific, I'm sure you'll find something." And the couple looked, found a design they loved, and it was ready well in time for the wedding. (Yes,![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
cynara_linnaea, it was the Caspis).
Then there was a rabbi I worked with recently. A real mensch*. One of the possible issues with having an artist fill out the ketubah is that it's done well before the wedding. Some rabbis find this to be problematic, as they feel that, as a legal document pertaining to a ceremony occurring at a specific time, it needs to be filled out at that time. So what is most often done is that the "leg" of one of the letters is left out of the lithographed text (the long part of the Hebrew letter "koof") and the fills that in at the ceremony. But you have to tell the artist to leave it blank, otherwise the artist fills it in. On this particular order, even though we told the artist to leave it blank, he filled it in anyway. I told the rabbi this and he said:
Many rabbis would have made the artist redo the whole thing. The artist would have been out time, and money.
I have dealt with angry couples, mistakes that the couple never hear about, rush jobs, and happy customers. And I learn something new every day.
*Stand up guy
Let me explain. (No, will take too long. Let me sum up). But seriously.
June is the universal wedding season. Jewish weddings are not exempt from this, usually because June falls in between sefirah and the three weeks, and people like to cram the simchas in.
But in the Jewish world, wedding season means an additional headache - the ketubah, or marriage contract. Most of the people who read my blog knows what one of these things is, but let's just say that the simple explanation is that it is basically a legal document stipulating a husband's obligations to his wife (at least, an Orthodox or Conservative one). However, it has become almost standard to have a very pretty version of this legal document, usually with calligraphy, most often filled in by the artist who created the design. The two main groups that feel the headache are the ketubah artists themselves, and the people through whom the ketubot are ordered - Judaica Stores!
Due to the fact that I organized most of what we have in the store that has to do with ketubot, and I am one of the fastest typists, I tend to handle most of the orders for personalized ketubot. This means that in the course of one order, I am in contact with the people who ordered the piece, their rabbi or cantor, and the artist.
This leads to some pretty interesting interactions. I had a couple come in two weeks before their wedding needing a ketubah, and I told them, "No problem. You've only got one artist to choose from, but she's pretty prolific, I'm sure you'll find something." And the couple looked, found a design they loved, and it was ready well in time for the wedding. (Yes,
cynara_linnaea, it was the Caspis).Then there was a rabbi I worked with recently. A real mensch*. One of the possible issues with having an artist fill out the ketubah is that it's done well before the wedding. Some rabbis find this to be problematic, as they feel that, as a legal document pertaining to a ceremony occurring at a specific time, it needs to be filled out at that time. So what is most often done is that the "leg" of one of the letters is left out of the lithographed text (the long part of the Hebrew letter "koof") and the fills that in at the ceremony. But you have to tell the artist to leave it blank, otherwise the artist fills it in. On this particular order, even though we told the artist to leave it blank, he filled it in anyway. I told the rabbi this and he said:
"Don't make the artist redo it. He does it by hand, right? I'll just go into the wedding thinking that it looks light to me and so I'll have to go over it with a pen. It's kind of a legal fiction anyway."
Many rabbis would have made the artist redo the whole thing. The artist would have been out time, and money.
I have dealt with angry couples, mistakes that the couple never hear about, rush jobs, and happy customers. And I learn something new every day.
*Stand up guy
